For
Lifelong people-pleasers ready to stop being the supporting cast.
What it is
Tools to break the people-pleasing cycle and a fellowship of support and reinforcement.
What it isn't
AI slop, a 12-step program, or a replacement for therapy.

Stop people pleasing. Become the hero you always needed.

There's no cost to join. I'm covering it for the first 20 members.

Here's how it works:

Step 01

Apply

Answer 5 quick questions (about 3 minutes). Pay nothing. I'll respond in 2 business days and pick 20 people I think I can most help.

Step 02

Get your plan

If you're chosen, you'll get a custom plan to end the people-pleasing.

Step 03

Meet 15 minutes weekly

You'll tell me what's working. I'll give you the next step.

Your feedback will shape the Fellowship for all who follow

Chad reviews every application · no application fees

Application · Question 1 of 5 Where it shows up

Your answers save as you go — close the tab and come back later.

I. Where it shows up

Where does people-pleasing show up in your life?

Pick every place it happens. There's no wrong answer — most people check several.

II. What it's costing you

What is people-pleasing costing you?

Rank these from biggest cost to smallest. Click in order — click again to unrank.

III. Why now

Why now?

What's prompting you to apply this week, rather than next year? A specific moment, a slow build, a final-straw event — whatever's true.

A sentence or two, please.
IV. What you've tried

What have you tried already?

No judgment about what worked or didn't — Chad just wants to know where you're coming from.

V. Send it to Chad

Where should Chad reach you?

He'll review your application and reach out with next steps — usually within two business days.

✦ Application received

Thank you. Chad will be in touch.

He'll review what you sent and reach out with next steps — usually within two business days. That may include a short conversation, or it may just be a thoughtful note.

One more thing. Fellowship of No is peer-support, not therapy. If you are in crisis right now, please reach out to a professional: in the US, dial or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline). In the UK, call Samaritans on 116 123. Elsewhere, contact your local emergency services or doctor. We'll still be here when you're ready.
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